...the kind words of one of our clients in regards to questioning when our baby is due.
I got to say, 'a little over 6 weeks' - isn't it exciting?!?
I went to Target yesterday to pick up a few last necessities: a few bottles, diaper rash cream, nighttime bath body wash, nursing supplies, etc. Who knew it would be SO fun to buy those things that are really needed!
I am so looking forward to when we get to snuggle our baby.
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Sunday, January 16, 2011
Things Good Mothers Know
I am reading a book I received from my Mother-in-law titled "Things Good Mothers Know" by Alexandra Stoddard. Many of the author's wisdoms resonate with me, so I thought I would share:
Redefine Perfectionism:
Perfection stifles creativity and resourcefulness. Since Perfectionism is unattainable in this world, I vote we bury it and move on to enjoying ourselves and time with our children, family and friends.
I am such a 'perfectionist' and I know that it has held me back from trying new things because I am afraid to 'fail' or lose.' It is high-time I start giving myself a break and enjoying life!
Excess is Destructive
Parents who overindulge their children are doing themselves and their children a great disservice. As mothers, we have a delicate balance to strike: we want to give every advantage to our children, but we don't want them to lose their drive, passion and sense of personal accomplishment. Too much good flips to the opposite.
As an adult, I have always enjoyed living a simple life, but I worry that Mike and I will overindulge our children. This book helps me to remember why we won't be doing that. Our children will not be given everything they want because it will encourage a grateful heart.
Accept Impermanence and Change
When we accept the laws of life (tides coming in and going out, cycles of the moon and sun, seasons of nature, etc)- those things that we cannot change- we can embrace making positive, appropriate changes in our lives. We can change our mind under changing circumstances.
Since moving to Maryland, many changes have occurred in my life and family that have made change a frightening thing. However, with change also becomes new beginnings and I hope that I can continue to strive to remember and honor 'the way things were' while also celebrating how things are and what lies ahead.
Make Wise Emotional Attachments
When a child makes a mistake, good mothers know not to take it personally. Somehow children grow up and in most cases turn out all right, in spite of us! They are children of the universe, and we have the privilege of caring form them in their formative years. The more loving we are, the less possessive and demanding we become. True love is selfless love.
This goes back to the unhealthy personal definition of perfectionism. I am going to do the best I can to not take my children's actions personal at all times. Of course, I believe parents need to take responsibility and teach what is right, but I will not define myself through my child.
What is most important to you?
What's most important to me is to know I am doing my best - to fulfill myself, to be happy, and to enrich the lives of my children, family, friends and world. We can only spread happiness and love from a happy, loving heart.
One thing I would like to remember as a mother is to make time for myself and the things I love, so that I can continue to grow as a person and show my children the fulfillment of having passions. I will work to share my happiness with my children daily.
Redefine Perfectionism:
Perfection stifles creativity and resourcefulness. Since Perfectionism is unattainable in this world, I vote we bury it and move on to enjoying ourselves and time with our children, family and friends.
I am such a 'perfectionist' and I know that it has held me back from trying new things because I am afraid to 'fail' or lose.' It is high-time I start giving myself a break and enjoying life!
Excess is Destructive
Parents who overindulge their children are doing themselves and their children a great disservice. As mothers, we have a delicate balance to strike: we want to give every advantage to our children, but we don't want them to lose their drive, passion and sense of personal accomplishment. Too much good flips to the opposite.
As an adult, I have always enjoyed living a simple life, but I worry that Mike and I will overindulge our children. This book helps me to remember why we won't be doing that. Our children will not be given everything they want because it will encourage a grateful heart.
Accept Impermanence and Change
When we accept the laws of life (tides coming in and going out, cycles of the moon and sun, seasons of nature, etc)- those things that we cannot change- we can embrace making positive, appropriate changes in our lives. We can change our mind under changing circumstances.
Since moving to Maryland, many changes have occurred in my life and family that have made change a frightening thing. However, with change also becomes new beginnings and I hope that I can continue to strive to remember and honor 'the way things were' while also celebrating how things are and what lies ahead.
Make Wise Emotional Attachments
When a child makes a mistake, good mothers know not to take it personally. Somehow children grow up and in most cases turn out all right, in spite of us! They are children of the universe, and we have the privilege of caring form them in their formative years. The more loving we are, the less possessive and demanding we become. True love is selfless love.
This goes back to the unhealthy personal definition of perfectionism. I am going to do the best I can to not take my children's actions personal at all times. Of course, I believe parents need to take responsibility and teach what is right, but I will not define myself through my child.
What is most important to you?
What's most important to me is to know I am doing my best - to fulfill myself, to be happy, and to enrich the lives of my children, family, friends and world. We can only spread happiness and love from a happy, loving heart.
One thing I would like to remember as a mother is to make time for myself and the things I love, so that I can continue to grow as a person and show my children the fulfillment of having passions. I will work to share my happiness with my children daily.
Saturday, January 1, 2011
Maternity Photo Shoot
Mike and Terri decided to try and take maternity photos on New Year's Eve and they turned out fabulous! This is very picture intensive but we got so many good ones. I can't wait to print and have them in our nursery and home some day! I am so lucky to have married into such a creative family!
Which do you like?
Thank you Terri, for helping us preserve these memories!!!
Saturday, December 25, 2010
Sunday, December 19, 2010
A few Projects
I have really enjoyed crocheting more as my activity level has remained a bit lower since becoming pregnant. I have been cleared to do everything for a while, but I am starting to get more tired again as the 3rd trimester progresses.
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| Morgan's hat |
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| Red Scarf for me |
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| Jackson's coming home outfit |
Such a fun hobby to have! I am thankful to be keeping my hands busy during the weekends. I have many more projects that I have done, but those will have to be posted after Christmas!
Sunday, December 5, 2010
Third Trimester
I know that all I post about these days are the baby and my belly, but I can't seem to think of much else that is so important. I would post more crochet projects, but they are all gifts at this point!
That means only 13 weeks left, eek!
A few stats for our records:
* baby has just started to kick me in the ribs (last 2 days)
* breathing is getting more difficult
* mama's weight gain 12-13lbs
* baby should be about 2lbs this week
* belly from pelvic bone to top of uterus is about 12 inches
* Mike is off to California for the week- it is hard to be alone!
THIRD TRIMESTER
That means only 13 weeks left, eek!
A few stats for our records:
* baby has just started to kick me in the ribs (last 2 days)
* breathing is getting more difficult
* mama's weight gain 12-13lbs
* baby should be about 2lbs this week
* belly from pelvic bone to top of uterus is about 12 inches
* Mike is off to California for the week- it is hard to be alone!
Saturday, December 4, 2010
Watching Morgan
Last night, we took Morgan for the evening while Matt & Lori went out for their companies Holiday Party. It was a learning experience, but we had a lot of fun.
Some things I learned:
* Swaddling is great
* Libby is going to be very jealous of Jackson
* Babies eat and spit up a lot!
* and..........
Some things I learned:
* Swaddling is great
* Libby is going to be very jealous of Jackson
* Babies eat and spit up a lot!
* and..........
*Mike is so good with babies! She fell asleep in his arms right away. I think he has a very calm way about him that settled her down - so good!
I am so thankful he is my partner when Jackson comes... I think I will re-name Mike the baby-whisperer.
Funny Mike quote from the night: "I didn't realize you hog-tie babies when you put them to sleep" (In reference to swaddling).
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